God Hates Abuse Project
A few years ago, I was in a dangerous toxic “Christian” marriage and couldn’t take it anymore!
After months of agonizing over whether to stay or leave, I finally made a plan of escape. I loaded up my three little girls, three cats, a pet chicken, and every possession I could discreetly pack into my car. We drove across the country to what I hoped and prayed would be a better life. I was very frightened, but believed that if I stayed, I would possibly be dead by my husband’s hands within a year. My close circle of confidants feared daily I would be the victim of a fatal “accident” by my husband on our small isolated farm. I had even started mentally composing a letter to leave behind to be found in the event I was murdered.
If you are reading this, it is likely that you or someone you care about is in a painful, and perhaps dangerous intimate relationship. To make things even more confusing, the abuser may consider himself religious, and justify his behavior with religious text and teachings. Deeply ingrained faulty religious beliefs compound a victim’s ability to get away from an abuser.
This is a direct insult to the Bible, to Christianity and to God. A woman should never fear going to hell for refusing to be submissive in a dangerous relationship...